Relationships

 

What makes for a good relationship?  Is there a perfect one?

Is there a model to go by?

Voice:  Relay-tion-ships…The answer to this is really a deep rooted ancestral one.  You noticed that I broke down the word for you because first of all; all relationships are a matter of relaying what’s in your hearts to one another.  If one cannot disclose honesty amongst their relationship, then “tion” (shun) yourselves and get on the ship and move on out (smile).  For eons man/woman roles were based off of men doing what they wanted and woman sitting on the sidelines waiting for their man to ask them “how are you doing dear one?”  “How was your flow with the child or children today?”  Woman would do their best to be the nurturer and make sure food was on the table for the man when he got home, etc.  You each became robots!!

The true blueprint for having a good relationship is giving each other love from the hearts. NOT just one of you doing this, but the both of you.  When one allows this flow of LOVE from the hearts all other activities come smoothly and without effort!  Too many times we see you humans put all other worldly matters before your mates, how to make money, how to do this and that.

HAVE you forgotten why you came here?  LOVE is all that matters on Earth and ALL you need to KNOW…  Your family ,friends or loved ones are there for you to practice this.  Once you truly have love flowing thru your hearts, the rest is easy!!  So if you notice that there is friction amongst your relationship, then one of you or the both of you need to re-evaluate your love for one another. Is it coming from the head or the heart?  No physical attraction can last if there is no true love from the hearts.  We often see that the human race chooses looks first and heart connections second…This is a no wonder why it takes work on your parts to keep relationships working wonder-fully!  

So, my dear one the model that one should go by, is:

Connect to ones’ heart first and the physical attraction will take place naturally.

How do you connect to ones’ heart?  What is meant by this?

Voice:   Study your mate, just like you would study a class assignment. See what they like to read, what they like to talk about, see where there heart was when they were a child. Ask each other what brought you joy as a young soul? Allow each other to be themselves!  There are no flaws in any of you.  To find a flaw in another, is to find a flaw in yourself.  All of these questions and more heartfelt ones are what will determine your flow of your relationship. It’s up to each individual to really want to know themselves deeply, to want to take on a relationship.  So ,you can take on a relationship or not.  Sooner or later a relationship or relationships will expose themselves to you and you will learn about yourself…It’s the reason you came here. (smile)  No book can tell you who you are, you have to experience it through relationships..:)

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