Good News and the not so Good News

How does one go about balancing their e-motions when they receive good news and/or not so good news..news that suddenly makes you feel that the heaviness that life sometimes places upon us with different circumstances ( good news) , now seems lighter… and then again the news that comes along when you think life is floating along so well and then suddenly an occurance takes place that puts a pit in your stomache. ( not so good news).   Inside me I know that these feelings of joy and sorrow is great and all, but i feel the high/low will be replaced with back to same o same o…How do I balance my emotions so that i do not feel the sudden dip in the wave of emotions ?

Voice:  You will serve yourselves well when you strive to maintain a balanced outlook whether you are confronting great joy or great sorrow. Intensely emotional circumstances can throw your lives for a loop, making you feel as if the world will never be the same again. But all situations, no matter how fraught with feeling, eventually wind down, becoming just another part of the status quo. When you make the most of your emotions while recognizing that your circumstances will eventually pass, you do your part to maintain the internal equilibrium you have worked so diligently to achieve. Little can put you off balance, absorbed as you are in the knowledge that stability can be everlasting if you let it. So don’t allow your reactions to overwhelm you , but take pleasure in good news without disregarding other aspects of your existence.

In other words, what I am telling you is, don’t allow the overwhelming joy of good news or not so good news to be bigger than YOU..because you are JOY, not the news !

With a twinkle in our eyes and love in our heart, the voice 🙂

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Think with your Heart

I keep having people tell me to think with your heart.  Just what does it mean when you allow your heart to speak and not your mind ?

Voice:  My big being of Light, when the heart speaks it means that you come from the heart in all you say and do.  So very often when you approach a situation in your life that requires a decision, you all seem to want to come from the head as to how to handle it…your mind goes to what should I do ?  Should I handle it this way so he/she will think I am doing the right thing ?

When the heart speaks, there is no head games that go on..you do whatever it is with an open heart and you have a sense of love and compassion that flows with the decision.  The love and compassion is not for others to feel, although this is nice as well, but it is for YOU !  This is a love and compassion for being able to speak and feel your truth of your being-ness.

Wow..voice, this sounds simple and all, but how do you shake the feelings of others that you share space with for judging you for your action taken if it does not meet their standards ?

Voice:  It is not for you to be concerned with others feelings or judgment calls..they do not reside in you..you do !!  One should practice releasing this feeling of “guilt” that is not necessary to have…you were only taught this uneasy feeling through pass-downs of heritage..this is a falseness that was taught..You now have the power to help not only yourself for coming from the heart, but others are able to learn this gift by your example..

With a twinkle in our eyes and love in our hearts, the voice 🙂